After you've had sex the real test begins . When your partner truly loves you they will still be there in the morning.
After the sex they will cuddle and snuggle and cling and caress.
They won't just eat and run.
You will have nice conversations, and as you savor your experiences together.
You talk of places you would like to go and things you would like to do together.
Locked arm in arm you talk of your dreams and desires and your place together in your future.
You fall asleep together, feeling warm legs and soft hands, this causes you to feel loved and needed as you enjoy a deep pleasant sleep.
You awaken in the morning locked in a gentle embrace as you plan your day together.
When its true love and affection they will still be with you after the erection.
Or does this sound more like the relationship you are in.
Your girl friend, she is a real piece of work. She comes over and stays for several hours until you finally get intimate with her.
And after the sex she is gone in less than10 minutes.
And after a few of these encounters you start putting a pattern together.You finally realized that she just came over when she needed to get some and after she got it she was up and gone. So now you can see there no real love here It was just lust after all.
So whether you're male or female observe your relationship whether it be new or old, and see if your lover is still by your side after the sex is done and the hormones have calmed down or have they given you a lame excuse just to get out the door..
If they don't care enough about you to remain with you after love making then its time for them to move on.
Lifes too short to let people waste your time. Because its after the sex that real companionship truly begins.
