Which Kind Of Lady Would You Like As Gentlemen: Tender Or Wild
From the old times, gentiles are directly connected with women
. In ancient times, a required course as well as a major course was to learn to be like a lady. Especially to their husbands, they should not only be gentiles but also to obey. To other people, they should respect and cannot offend. They cannot laugh loudly; they cannot cry loudly; they cannot speak loudly; they cannot even lose their temper. When they really suffer some injustice, they are not allowed to say out, but to sweep the tear quietly, what reflects is the gentiles of women, just like clean waterWhile in modern times, even more women seem have thoroughly remold themselves, turning out to be wild women or successful machismo. They have their own life style; they can laugh loudly, cry loudly, and speak loudly. At the same time, they have their own career, and being an outstanding person, receiving admiration from men. The insist equality between man and women, and gentiles seem have faded
As the saying goes that Gentiles can mean different things to different people and different angles. Under the influence of Chinese traditional concept, tenderness is always considered as the trait of ladies. However, with development of social, the status of women is equal with men and women is tend to become more and more wild and overbearing due to the great progress of Womens Liberation Movement or the pressure of living in such fiercely competitive society. So should woman be gentiles or wild?
Frankly speaking, as a girl, I do not hope that I am tired of feudal thinking, but I am not willing of becoming wild and overbearing. Womens female character is not able to change immediately, and women's different body structure from men makes them look more like lovely mothers than aggressive staff or politicians. I should be a tender girl at some time, and I may try to be wild in the front of boyfriend at private space. Maybe it looks surprising to boyfriend. Sum up, I think that no every gentle man loving drinking boiled water all the time, it is a best choice to add a little of condiment in boiled water.
As I see it, sometimes we need to be tender, not only for the happiness of our lovers, but also for ourselves, but sometimes it is necessary to be humorous, outgoing, and openhanded to be accustomed to the modern society. Therefore, tenderness must exist in our character in addition of a little wild; you will get a different affection.
by: Sanmanthe