Why Are You A Life Coach? - Your Motivators

Ultimately, what makes or breaks your success a life coach are the driving forces behind all your decisions and what you create in your life

. Your motivation. Your reasons for doing what you do. WHY do you want to be a life coach? Why do you want to spend all this time learning how to attract clients and become successful? Most coaches fail because of their driving forces or lack thereof.

There are temporary motivators and long-term motivators. The only long-term motivator that works, that increases in power every time you use it, that propels you to long-term success is CONTRIBUTION. Anything short of contribution will ultimately fail or fizzle out. Anything less than contribution, service, or a higher purpose is almost always selfish in nature. And it almost always has a destination.

Anything with a destination has a completion, meaning the juice and the motivation leaves. Either because you get to the destination or you get tired and give up on trying to reach the destination. It doesnt even matter what the destination is. There are endless destinations. Money. Wealth. Success. A certain dollar amount. Achieving something. Winning a championship. Approval. Fame. Acknowledgement. Being good enough. Survival. It doesnt matter. Theyre all destinations.

Anything selfish in nature doesnt work either. Many times life coaches are trying to earn enough money so they feel valuable and good about themselves. That always fails in the end and never leads to fulfillment.

Now you can experience success from selfish causes. But the success wont ultimately last, and even more important youll never be fulfilled or happy. You wont find what youre looking for.

The only thing that causes continuous joy, happiness and fulfillment is contribution. And everyone in the end wants to get to a space of contribution. But many never really get there like they want to. Contribution is not a destination. Contribution is a journey. And thats the point. Contribution is moment to moment every moment. When youre in a place of contribution, youre happy and fulfilled. Because its not about you. Its about others.

Contribution is the only motivator that can provide you with long-term success and fulfillment. Whatever your motivations are, begin weeding out your fears and selfish desires so you can come from a place of contribution. And just a hint, if youre coming from that place, youll attract lots more clients than if youre coming from a place of wanting to be successful and earn money. Contribution is a life-time aspiration and practice, and the only worthwhile and fulfilling practice there is.

by: The Coach's Coach

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