Why Do Nice Guys Fail With Women? Here Are The Reasons Most Guys Desperately Want To Know

There is an old adage which says that 'nice guys finish last'

. Most people go on wondering why that happens and why do these nice guys fail with women? Most women we meet say that they just want to date a 'nice guy' but when they meet one they head in the exact opposite direction and start dating the 'bad boy'!

The answer to this question actually lies in the fact that nice guys become too nice around the women they like, allowing to be treated like doormats. Some of the things that nice guys do wrong and must avoid are as listed below:

o Feel nervous and intimidated: Most nice guys feel very nervous around women they like. This nervousness leads them to believe that they need to work really hard to impress the woman and as a result end up trying too hard. When these efforts are not recognized in the way they want, these nice guys begin feeling intimidated.

As a result of this, these men get easily manipulated and do not get the respect that they deserve.

o Seeking approval: This intimidation makes these men so insecure that they are in a constant search for approval and go to any lengths to get that. When these men do a thing like this, it makes the woman feel that the man has no self respect. His behavior becomes submissive and weak which is a turn off.

Women look for men who are in control and do not take mistreatment. They like men who retain their power and control yet give the woman the respect and attention that she deserves. He is not hungry for attention and his behavior reflects that.

o Accepting any kind of behavior: The quintessential insecurities are so high that he goes on to accept any kind of behavior from his girlfriend. Since he allows the woman to assume the role of 'the boss', he remains a weak and submissive character. Such men also are clingier and appear more desperate and accept any behavior just to be able to talk to the woman.

In their desperation, these men also call too much, too often repeatedly speaking of their feelings and emotions. This is not a manly attribute and women do not respect such men.

o Just too nice! : These nice guys go to any lengths to make the woman feel good. These men treat their girls too "nicely", like they would treat their own grandmother. They also end up listening to all the girl trouble that the women are facing just like their girlfriends would and give them advice as well.

Well the girl clearly needs a nice man in her life and not a girlfriend in a boyfriends clothing.

A nice guy is one who listens to his girl, respects her, cares for her yet retains his dignity, pride and self respect. So try being a nice "Man", who understands his role as the "man" and exudes confidence and enjoys the woman's respect.

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by: Rahul Talwar

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