Why Men Become Insecure About Their Penis Size
Why Men Become Insecure About Their Penis Size
I felt the need to write this article, why men become insecure about their penis size, because there are a lot of guys out there, such as yourself, who's been in a situation where they felt insecure or put down by a woman because of the size of their penis, leading to the reason why men want a bigger penis.
Men with a average penis girth never feel like they are big enough to satisfy women. Since they have slept with a few women who never complained about their penis size and it seemed as though they enjoyed it. For some men, the insecurity about their size seemed to be all in their head.
This happened to a friend of mine. He meet someone whom he felt very compassionate about, and this was the woman who would be his future wife. After finding out she had been with quite a few men in her life. He wonder if he could fulfill her needs.
In the beginning they had best sex life, so he thought. But, whenever they switched to a certain sexual position it was hard, because she had a big booty. So, he started doing some penis exercises along with some male enlargement pills that would increase the size of his penis and it caused him to grow about an inch thicker and it added to his length. This was something that he kept to himself.
One particular night, she notice that he had gotten bigger and said to him. "Your penis has gotten bigger!" For that moment he felt like the happiest man on earth but the next words out of her mouth made him feel like he was less than a man. She said, "it's about time your penis got bigger!"
So he asked her, what are you saying, my penis wasn't big enough for you? At that moment, she knew she had messed up and tried to console him by saying, it was because of the size of her booty. Trying to make him feel better she said, "it wasn't his fault, it was hers because of the size of her booty."
At one point he felt like this was something he could get over. But, then she decided to tell him how big her ex was. The only reason she revealed this to him is, her ex had been hitting on her best friend and he told her how huge he was.
His first thought was, why in the world would she tell me something like this. This is the woman who would become my wife. Now she is telling me it is not big enough and how huge her ex was. This really destroyed his self-confidence, and caused him to have low self-esteem about his sexual abilities.
How could he feel good about his ability to please her when she had just told him that he was inadequate in penis size. Although he thought he was satisfying her with pleasure. He began to think she was faking the whole time. Then he began to ask himself, what is a man to do. This was the lowest point he had ever felt in his life.
The only thing I could tell him to do was, don't worry about it. I knew it was easy for me to say, because I have never been in a situation like that before. I also told him he should not feel inadequate about is penis size since he was taking action for increasing it.
He took my advice, but he was still hurt by what had happened. It's going to take him some time to get over what she said, but as long as he keeps on exercising he will have her begging for more.