Why Men Cheat - Sorting Out Your Emotions and Confusion
Why Men Cheat - Sorting Out Your Emotions and Confusion
Has your guy let you down by cheating on you and you don't understand why? Are you devastated by the thoughts that keep coming back to haunt you and you don't know how you'll ever get over the feeling of betrayal? Do you really want to understand the cause of his infidelity in order to keep it from happening again? As heartbreaking and difficult as this can be, you can mend your relationship and go on to be happy. Here are a few things to consider as you start again.
There is a certain group of men who are completely and irrevocably incorrigible. For whatever reason, they simply can't be faithful to one woman. Whether it's immaturity or incapacity to truly love, these men will cheat regardless of what you do. It's best to recognize them from the start and simply avoid becoming involved with them.
However, there are some good men out there who simply falter. While there is really no excusing their actions, it can help to understand them.
Sex will usually factor into it somewhere, and if you know your sex life has been bleak, try to look into what you can both do to improve this aspect of your relationship. Then dig deeper and find out what's really bothering him.
Men will usually complain about the overall way the woman makes him feel. She's on his back about virtually everything. She won't let him have fun doing anything. He can never do anything right. His ego is continually bashed and his self esteem is constantly being crushed.
Until the day he meets a girl who laughs with him and makes him feel like a man again. She listens to him instead of brushing him off. She admires him instead of telling him how unworthy he is. And she looks at him as a man, not just some dope who is making another mistake.
Always remember his need to feel valued in the relationship. Taking him for granted can only lead you back to feeling betrayed when he cheats.