Why Slow Sex is Better?
Why Slow Sex is Better?
Why Slow Sex is Better?Vigorous, energetic, all-out-thrusting can be, fast sex is not necessarily all that orgasmic for many women. Not all women orgasm from slow hand sex and even those that do sometimes prefer fast-paced hard core sex. But there's something about slow, rhythmic, interactive sex that helps many women to orgasm.
Unfortunately, many men have been raised on porn that stresses fast, vigorous, all-out, make her sore sex as the only model of how couples have sex. This is a shame because men, like women, want so hard to please their partners when they actually get a chance to move past porn and into a bed with a real, live partner. And yet when they get that chance, they may fumble around, do the 1-2-thrust-kapow and then wonder what went wrong.
Learn more about the slow groove and you may just realize what women have known for yearsslow sex is better.
WHY SHE LIKES IT SLOW
Going slow during sex can help women to explore what does and doesn't feel good about sex. Going slow can also help many men to pay attention to their own sensations so that they can back off if things get too intense and they want to last longer before ejaculating. And going slow doesn't mean that you can't ever move fast.
1. Just because a woman is wet, that doesn't mean she's near climax. A good rule of thumb: Take the amount of time you think she needs, and double it. If she's ready sooner, you'll know it.
2. Synchronicity is overrated. We girls don't care when we have an orgasmas long as we get one. The longer you stimulate usand the slower you take thingsthe more likely that becomes.
3. Hell, sex is fun. You rush through the workday and always try to be efficient, but when it comes to playany kind of playmake it count. She needs the break and pleasure as much as you do.
BENEFIT FROM slow sex for men
You can last longer. Take deep breathes during sex. Forget reciting baseball stats. If you want to last longer, you need to slow your breathing down when you are close to ejaculating. Focusing on how quickly you inhale and exhale can help you avoid climaxing before you're ready.
While women just have one G spot, men have the equivalent of two: one near the prostate, and one on top of the penis, just below the head. That's why it's important to alternate between long and short strokes. You'll last longer, excite her, and get the extra stimulation you might other wise have missed banging it like a jackhammer.
If you typically have more energetic, vigorous sex and yet you're yearning for more pleasure or an easier orgasm, try to slow it down if you can even if it's just parts of the sex act that you scale down and see how they feel. Set the pace with slower, more seductive kisses. Say "go slow" or "more gentle" if you need to. Or move your hips in a slower way to indicate the pace you'd like to try. Grabbing your partner's thrust-crazy hips and slowing things down manually is an option, too.
Two words: stronger orgasms. The slower you take things, and the more times you get close to the edge without going over, the more powerful the release will be when you finally climax.
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