Women dating older men are actually much more common than men dating older women
. There are actually many reasons why a woman may enjoy dating an older man and these reasons are much more then the simple gold digger philosophy that she is out just for his money. While some women are out for money, not all of them are.
Maturity plays a huge role in the appeal of dating an older man. Women do mature faster than men so a woman may feel that most men her age are very immature.
There are some women that look to older men as a father figure. Many times the women who do this had an absent father growing up. This can be a good relationship for both parties as the women will get mentoring and guidance and the man will feel like he is admired which can be great for the ego.
Women are attracted to confident men and in general older men tend to have more confidence. This is very fulfilling in several different areas, particularly in the bedroom.
They also have more experience in life and now what they enjoy and the things that they want to try.
An older man also can be a type of security for many women as they are successful and secure. They have already struggled through lower jobs to their current position and you do not have to be there as they climb but can enjoy the results.