Why Women Break Up With Their Men - And How You Can Win Her Back
Why Women Break Up With Their Men - And How You Can Win Her Back
There are a lot of reasons why women will break up with their boyfriends. With every relationship and every situation, there is a new reason for why she might break up with her man. However, when you break things down into their more 'simpler' form, you can end up seeing that there are a few really common reasons, themes that play out in most relationship break ups.
Knowing why she broke up with you is a big deal if you are going to try and win her back. After all, if you have no clue on why it was that she broke up with you, how are you going to be able to turn things around and win her back?
Here are a few really common reasons why women break up with their men, and how you can win back YOUR girlfriend:
1) She catches you cheating on her.
This is a really common reason, and sometimes, kind of hard to turn around. If there was only one instance, or it was just a casual thing, you will usually have a much easier time than if you were carrying on with a 2nd relationship. Now, I will never say that all cheating situations can or should be turned around, but as long as you can show her through your actions, not your words that it will not happen again, you do have a chance to win her back.
2) The two of you don't spend time together like you used to.
This can be probably the easiest situation that you can turn around, and it's also one of the more common reasons for a break up. Jobs get in the way, social events get in the way, there are lots of reasons why you and her may stop spending time together like you used to. However, that can also be the start of the relationship deteriorating, and it's so simple to turn around. Again, this is not with words, but actions, show her that you will spend quality time with her. That's not to say that you should become a doormat and drop everything to be with her, but spend quality time with her.
3) The attraction just is not there anymore.
It's funny when people explain a break up and say that the attraction or the chemistry just "died out." It does not just die out in the blink of an eye, all along there are clues and signs, and most of the time we do not see them until it is too late. You can turn this around, by becoming FOCUSED on rebuilding that attraction, and it can take some time and effort to do this. Thing is, when the attraction is strong enough, there is very little that can break up the relationship, so it's more than worth it to learn how to bring back that feeling, if you want to get her back.