Why Would You Want To Get Your Ex Back? 3 Things You Should Consider Before Getting Your Ex Back!
Once upon a time, there was a couple who were in love
, but once in a while they would fight. Over time, these fights turned into really nasty brawls and things got so bad that they had to break up.Now, while the couple still loved each other dearly, every time they got back together, they ended up doing the same thing over and over again: fighting.
In the end, so many things affected them that they just couldn't get past these differences as they only just grew and ended up unable to be happy together.
Now, obviously this is NOT something you want to be faced with when trying to get your ex back, however it is something that over 80% of couples will experience after a break up!
Sadly, most people don't even realize what is causing these issues, and therefore they never actually work to solve the core problems. And trust me, you can love someone, but at the same time you can hate what they do!
That is why you need to consider these next 3 things before you try and get your ex back, to ensure that you don't encounter the same heart breaking problems all over again....
1. Can I Change?
You need to really look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you can change, and if you can commit to the kind of change that your ex wants to see, and the kind of change that you want to see.
If you really cannot do it in a way that makes YOU happy, then getting back together with your ex is not a good idea right now.
2. Will my Ex Change?
"It takes two to tango", and of course in every relationship there needs to be effort from BOTH sides. Look at your past relationship and everything up until now relating to your ex.
Have they made a real effort to change or try and work things out? Or do they always slip back into the same destructive behavior which causes the relationship to become unstable and unhealthy?
If your ex really cannot change, then you will ALWAYS be faced with the same issues you have faced before in your relationship, and these same issues will ALWAYS lead to more heartbreak and more pain.
3. Can we move forward? -
So let's say you want your ex back, but they have done a few things which really tick you off and you just can't seem to get over it. It may be that they have lied, hurt you, or even cheated on you.
If neither of you is able to really forgive, so that you are not always throwing this in each other's face, then you really will never be able to move forward, and once again will be spiraling back into an unhealthy relationship once again.
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by: Rahul Talwar