Why relationships without intimacy are not successful or don't last long

Intimacy is the main impetus for the success of every love relationships in this

world perhaps it is a known fact that it is not possible for any relationship to survive without intimacy. By intimacy, I mean to say both physical and emotional intimacy. A physical intimacy is not possible without a mental intimacy and also an emotional intimacy can never be developed without having physical intimacy between partners. This is the area where most couples face troubles.

It is common in many relationships that one type of intimacy is more important to one partner than the other. They try to drag this relationship by assuming that everything is perfectly alright between them until one of the partners speaks out and letting them know that the relationship was not that intimate which they were thinking of. A more tragic case is the ending of a relationship due to lack of intimacy or divorce after marriage.

If you and your partner lack in physical or emotional intimacy in your relationship then you should expect anything out of that particular relationship. Such relationships often turn out to be a short lasting one and hence tend to perish with time. The reason for this is very simple and you don't have to be a rocket scientist to understand the reason of your break up. Without any physical or mental attachment between two life partners, there is nothing to hold the relation together and hence in tough situations one tends to loose faith and loyalty on the other and both partners find themselves amidst a great ocean of peril, with nothing to hold onto. Such feelings later lead to a feeling of insecurity and thus they fail to trust each other in stringent situations in their life.

It is not that you have to pretend being intimate with your partner. It is just that showing simple care or physical affection, such as hugs, kisses, pampering, cuddling and holding your partner's hand lets your partner know that you care for him or her. It is these actions that bring the feeling of love, trust and faithfulness in your relation and help in binding the relationship, strongly together.

A question that is sure to pop in your mind is that how you can know that that you are satisfactorily intimate with your soul mate. Well it is very simple. Let me give you a sweet example and things will get cleared! Suppose you see your partner in a room next to where you are sitting and find out that she is watching you. Just blink your eye with a sweet smile and if she gives a similar reply by winking or smiling back at you then consider yourself lucky as you were successful in developing a feeling of intimacy with your partner.

Most people do not feel good about hurting or distrusting their partners but often these situations arises when you start to get skeptic about your partner's activities and fail to trust her or keep faith on her. The dominant force acting behind such matters is lack of emotional intimacy. Without intimacy you can never feel secured while in a relation and hence can never know that your partner truly love you or not. This is why a relationship without intimacy on both levels is doomed to failure in most of the cases.

Why relationships without intimacy are not successful or don't last long

By: Jenny Rogers

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