Will More Frequent Sex Keep Your Husband From Cheating?
Will More Frequent Sex Keep Your Husband From Cheating
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You're looking for every way you can find to keep your husband from cheating. Will more frequent sex do the trick? Perhaps. But, usually only in the sense that he's too exhausted to even think about seeking a moment's worth of pleasure with another woman.
The downside of that will be that he's probably too tired or distracted to do much of anything else. It takes a LOT of sex to take sex off the mind of an ordinary man.
Sex is a wonderful thing in marriage. But you'll have a hard time finding a man who believes he's getting too much sex at home. You'll definitely never have one complain about it.
With this in mind, cheating offers the average man yet another opportunity to have sex. Most men are going to have a hard time turning that down unless he's risking something more than frequent sex at home by cheating.
How do you make the risk outweigh the potential rewards for your husband?
Give Him What He Really Needs from You
Did you know that there is one thing your husband wants from you more than sex? No the answer isn't "more sex." It's adoration. He wants to bask in the glow of your adoration.
Do you remember how you used to hang on every word, laugh at every joke, and find any excuse possible to put your hands on your husband? He liked that! He liked it a lot!
In fact, most men would give up daily sex in a heartbeat in order to go back to the status he felt he had in your eyes when you were dating. Now I'm now saying he'd give up sex completely but he would definitely give up the marathon pace for sex and gladly settle for three or four nights a week (such a sacrifice I know).
In the end he needs to feel that adoration. You give that to him and another woman will have a much harder time turning his head.
Can it really be that simple? You better believe it. Women and men alike have certain things they need from their partners. Men need the adoration, that sense of being invincible in your eyes. Women need other things from their men (to be needed, cherished, and sometimes even feel protected). Men like respect and adoration and are particularly vulnerable to women who offer that to them. They are doubly vulnerable if they aren't getting enough of those things at home.
