Will My Man Come Back? What to Do to Make it Happen
Will My Man Come Back? What to Do to Make it Happen
Have you just been through a break up? Are you wondering if your man will come back? Take heart, there are things you can do to make him think that you are the only girl for him.
During the period before the break up, your man was probably feeling hemmed in and under constant emotional pressure. Generally men will do almost anything to avoid an emotional scene, so his leaving will often be an instinctive need to escape the immediate situation. For the time being you need to give him space. It will be a monumentally hard thing to do, but if you are still in contact with him, either by calling or texting, you must stop. The instinctive desire to try and do something to get him back right now will be strong, but the best thing you can do for the moment is to cease all contact as soon as possible. Pressuring your man to change his mind will only push him further away.
It may sound strange, but the key to getting your man to come back is your own mind set. What you need to do is change the way that he sees you. This means finding the person you were when you first met, this is the person he fell in love with, when there was no conflict or ill feeling. After the recent emotional upheaval, you need a chance to gather your thoughts, and take a real break from him if you want your man to come back. As the saying goes; "absence makes the heart grow fonder", and this is very true. Regardless of the circumstances of your break up, if you take yourself completely out of the picture for a while, he will miss you.