If you are trying to get your ex back after having broken up, are you the only one of the two trying to resolve the situation? This can be difficult to do but if you pursue it with confidence you have a good chance of succeeding. The following four steps will give you some guidance in what it takes to win back your ex and increase your confidence.
1. Keep contact with your ex at a minimum if you want to win them back. It might feel like you are doing the opposite of what is needed by leaving them alone, but it is something you must do. Actually both of you need to take a break so you can think over the current situation before you try to do anything. You must get your thoughts together so you can start thinking clearly again.
2. Your relationship failed for some reason. You are going to have to find out what went wrong and have enough flexibility to deal with your ex in a civil manner. If you were the problem here you definitely need to give some if you want your ex back
3. Get out and enjoy yourself so you can take your mind off the break up. If you sit home and worry over it all day and night it will drive you crazy. Hang out with your family and friends, they will help you get past the rough part and help you move on.
4. Be strong and have patience, this is not going to happen overnight. Do not get desperate and start begging your ex to come back, it will not work. Have a plan and work it without advertising what you trying to do, make it look natural and things will go smoother.