You Realy Want Your Ex Back – But Do You Make These Mistakes?
You Realy Want Your Ex Back But Do You Make These Mistakes
?You are staring into space...your emotions run riot....you are confused and anxious...so many different thoughts race through your mind....Yes, your in a break up and there is one thing that sticks in your mind...You want your ex back.
Well, the internet is full of great tips to help you get your ex back and they tell you what to do to win him or her back. But let's talk about the things you realy don't want to do to get your ex lover back. So let's take a look....
Begging Your Ex Lover to Take You Back
You may feel this is the way to get your ex back. That this is a way to show them how much you care about them, but this is so very wrong and you know it. It's make you look realy pitiful. You don't want that... don't you? Picture in mind that you are so desperate...see yourself begging, apologizing for everything and saying how you can't live without your ex while sitting on your knees to your ex to take you back. Not a nice picture, is it?...And even if he or she is taking you back, your ex would never value you, because their minds keeps replaying the scene how you were sitting there begging her or him to take you back.
Putting So Much Effort to Reach Your Ex
Well, this is so recognizable, don't it? You feel so restless inside and can't make yourself calm. You want to contact your ex in any way you can. Just to let him or her know that you are still around and maybe that after you contacted they will invite you to come over or something. You have think of all the lame excuses to contact...You make up questions you can ask that look important, but realy have the purpose to contact again. Yes, I know...you are tricking yourself. In the worst case you don't go out anymore afraid that your ex might call you in your abscence.
The thing is that humans in general don't like to feel pressure...so is it with this situation. You should think it about the perspective of your ex now. It's not helping alot that you text or mail unsolicited. It builds pressure on them. Gettting back together with your ex is not a race. Try to do things more relaxed and try to make things more easy.
Once you created some distance and your ex is not hearing from you see probably going to think about you more and more. And thinking about the realy good things he or she had with you. Then they will see that breaking up with you was a big mistake in the first place.
I hope this helped, you guys .