Your Menopause Moods Are Causing Serious Problems in Your Marriage - What Should You Do?

Your Menopause Moods Are Causing Serious Problems in Your Marriage - What Should You Do

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How do I know about how menopause can affect your marriage, and why do I think can help you? I think you know what is happening, but feel all alone in solving the issues premenopause is causing you. I have spent 10 years with my wonderful wife. About the time we met, she was 31 years old and just beginning premenopause. When we met, she was always logical, funny, smart and a tremendous companion. Then, slowly we would get into crazy arguments and she would become emotional and get very insecure. I have never been in the types of nearly violent encounters I experienced with Andrea. She was completely unaware that she was triggering and creating situations that were completely out of character for her. 3 days later, she would return to the wonderful girl I had known from the start.

Does this sound familiar? Since this lasted years, and our discovery of what was wrong was slow in coming, It could get so bad that there were times that we just threatened to break up and to go our separate ways. That is the point. She and I neither noticed that this was not a real world logic problem. It was biological. It was hormonal. It was emotions over logic. But the symptoms were well known. AND... they are treatable. But, without help we would wreck our relationship. Neither of us wanted that.

You searched the internet and found this article. I'm glad. But, what I have found is that women who know that they are menopausal and realize that their mood swings and other symptoms are affecting their relationships are not searching correctly for the answers. Sure, they are finding out about menopause and what causes it and what the symptoms are. They are finding all kinds of claims for cures and advice. But, they have skipped a step.

In our case, who knew my wife better than me? As her husband, who could have cared more to know what was causing the changes I was seeing and what they were all about. Many of you reading this article know that after a huge episode (fit, argument, crying, despondency or whatever), you woke up the next morning and didn't even know what it was about. How could that be?

We began to notice how cyclical all of this was. A doctor let us know that her young age did not make her immune to the beginning of menopause. Starting in your early 30s and lasting 10 to 15 years is not even rare. He told us it was to prepare for a long and rough ride and that we had better hang on.

"We were in for a long ride." We need toWork together. Which is what we did. Using the right combination of research on prescription drugs, some homeopathic therapy and happily team work she is living a greater quality of life today. The key is to help educate and communicate with your loved ones. Especially with your husband work together.

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