When I talk to other singles, I often hear them say "I am single because I am too picky" or "my standards are too high." And when I ask them to tell me more about it, I find nothing unusually high about their standards. My suspicion tells me that there truly is nothing wrong with their standards. The real problem is their inner critic or the voice in their head that judges their own standards.Whether you are aware of it or not, this self-talk is...more
The mere thought of dating instills fear into the hearts of many women. Whether it's the anxiety of rejection or the worry of just not knowing how to act or what to say, some women spend years alone rather then go through this anguish. The good news is that dating can be easy if you are prepared to tweak your attitude and behaviour. Here is one quality that you absolutely must possess or develop to succeed at dating. If you don't...more
Congruence is important in dating. Ever met someone who thought they were the most moral and ethicalperson in the world and never missed an opportunity to remind youof that?Kind of annoying, huh? Especially when you start to examine theirbehavior and discover what they call "ethics and morals"conveniently explains away their bad behavior.If you want to be a man who not only attracts women, but keepsthem, your words and behaviors have got to match up. Incongruityis always an attraction killer.Incongruity is caused when there's a gap between words andbehavior, and the wider the gap, the more the incongruity(politicians, especially those advocating higher taxes whilecheating the tax man themselves, are the perfect example of this).What you want to do is to make sure there's a minimal gap, a gapyou're always striving to close. No one is going to be perfect100% of the time--but those who strive to be are much more congruentthan those who don't.Women take notice of men who do their best to make their deeds andwords match. Most men don't- in fact they do the opposite, runningtheir mouths, talking up their own superiority and making promisesthey can't...more
Dating is not a straightforward game; you never can say which the right girl for you is. So relax and just try and enjoy the dating picture as much as you can but do not forget to be yourself always because this is how it's possible for you to find out if someone will be a good match for you or not. But what if you have become...more
Teen Dating ViolenceWhat's Dating Violence?Dating violence is a pattern of abusive behaviors that one person uses to have control in a relationship with someone else. The abuser uses feelings of fear, humiliation, and degradation to control the other person. Abuse is not limited to physical abuse. Types of abuse include physical...more
If you're looking forward to dating an older woman, then this article is for you. Older women who date younger guys are known as "cougars" and the younger men are known as "cubs". Alot of men date older women for a variety of reasons, but this article won't discuss why these two groups of people date. Instead, this article will focus on how to attract and date an older woman for yourself.If you've never dated an older woman before, you should know that the experience is one of a kind. Older woman usually know what they want in a relationship, and sometimes younger guys just like to have fun. With these two combinations, something special can blossom. Here's the first tip for attracting and dating an older woman.1) Be a good conversationalistOlder women love a man who can hold an intellectual conversation. Believe it or not, most older women don't think that younger men can hold long conversations, but this couldn't be further from the truth. The truth of the matter is that some younger men are very brilliant and intellectual - you just have to show her that you are.When talking about certain subjects, go in depth with your conversation to show her that you know what...more
Dating is challenging. First you have to approach a woman, convince her to give you her phone number, talk to her on the phone, and schedule a date. Most men in the world today have problems approaching a beautiful woman, but if you're...more
If you're a single man who's trying to get back into the world of dating, then you have to be aware of all of the dating scams that around. This is especially prevalent in the world of online dating so you will want to be on your guard....more
When it comes to dating, quality time is a necessity. You have to spend proper quality time so that the relationship can develop and blossom over time. If you're currently in a relationship with someone and are looking for some dating...more
Attracting and approaching women is a tough thing to do. You have to gather up the confidence to walk up to a woman and introduce yourself, and then get her phone number. If this is something that you're not used to doing, then the...more
When it comes to dating, you shouldn't have to resort to desperation when trying to find a woman to date. There are many places where you can find a date and a great place to start is by visiting places where alot of people already hang...more
Are you a nice guy or a bad boy? Does that question really matter when it comes to dating? Of course it does, and it is the topic of this article. Inside of this article, you will learn the difference between a nice guy and a bad boy...more