Of late you find that your ex is taking an active interest in your life and seems to be omnipresent. You bump into them at the most unexpected of places or see them hanging around your group of friends. You are beginning to enjoy the attention, however, a word of caution "please check if you are jumping the gun and assuming things".It is time you test his/her true intentions.Ignore your ex for a whileAlthough your ego is inflating like a balloon...more
Most of us spend a lot of time whining and crying over our ex after being dumped. But what we don't realize is that if we act promptly, this break up can be reversed. In fact, people break up and get back together all the time.See the celebrities around you, Jude Law and Sienna Miller, Pamela Anderson and now Tiger Woods to name a few. All these celebrities and more and many of us common mortals re unite with our ex's. All you need to do is...more
Getting dumped is not something to laugh about. After you have gone through the motions of raving and ranting at your (now ex) lover for rejecting and dumping you it is important to stop feeling angry and hurt and start working on your strategy to get your ex back.Plot and plan to make your ex's head turn when they see you and make them want to regret letting you go! Follow these effective steps and see your ex crawl back to you.Figure out the real reason behind you wanting your ex backGranted there are a number of things you can do to get your ex back but making rash decisions might mean that you will end up having regrets later on. Don't rush - take your time to determine your true feelings for your ex.If you find that you still want your ex back and are prepared to forgive and forget then only go on to the next step of luring your ex back. Remember just being lonely now that your ex is not around is not a reason to reconcile.Drop tactics that are patheticThese will no doubt include texting, calling, stalking and even begging your ex to come back to you. All you will succeed in doing is to push your ex further away. Learn to respect your ex's desire to stay away from you for now....more
Breaking up can be quite hard to deal with but making up and getting back together is no rocket science. You just need to learn how to maneuver your ex's mind by playing some mind games which will make your ex want to get back with you.Since it was your ex's decision to break up, it's highly unlikely that he/she will get back with you if you ask...more
Most of us waste our time dwelling in the past and reliving the wonderful moments spent with the ex who so painfully dumped us and left. All those wonderful memories take you to a new threshold of pain that you didn't know existed. But the fact is that you have been dumped and living in the past is not going to get your ex back.The first thing that...more
Did your relationship with a long time lover just break up? Are you feeling frustrated and a bit depressed because of the breakup? You have been tossing in bed for some nights now thinking of ways for your ex to notice you again. How can you get your ex back when you have holed-up yourself in the bedroom? Get cracking and plan your moves.Stay cool and collected. Don't go to your ex's house demanding why he/she left you. You wouldn't want a restraining order, would you? Don't attempt to stalk your ex. There are ways to know what your ex is up to without you looking like a fool. Stop texting and calling your ex every hour on the hour. This would make your ex want to run away from you.What really happened?- There must be a compelling reason for your ex to have left you. Think very carefully. Assess the breakup and in so doing you might realize why your ex left you. Once you know your shortcomings it would be easier for you to plan your next move on how to get your ex to notice you again.Do not call your ex and say you are sorry. What is there to be sorry about? Are you sorry because he/she left you? Are you sorry because your ex had to put up with your faults? What about your ex's...more
Getting through a breakup is not an easy thing to do. You are left with some unresolved issues. You might be consistently and persistently bothered by the fact that your ex is now out of your life. Sometimes it best that you move on but at the back...more
Getting back with an ex may be a great idea for you now, but wait till you finish post doctoral work before doing anything that even resembles reconciliation or worse, stalking. With the advent of women's liberation, it's no wonder why women run...more
Just when you thought that your life is perfect, your beloved boyfriend ruins it and breaks up with you. This is really frustrating because you thought that your boyfriend loves you very much and will not abandon you ever; until one day he left...more
A month has passed after the break up and you have realized that you are still madly in love with your ex and you want him back in your life. However, you are still clueless about how your ex feels about you. You don't know if your ex still loves you...more
We are all bound by rules to maintain order in our society. This goes the same for our lives. There are rules that you must obey if you want to have her back in your life. She may have experienced a lot of hardships during your relationship that's...more
If running after an ex could get them back then track athletes would never suffer from a breakup. However, love is complicated and running after your ex will only convince them to run faster, in the opposite direction.The key to getting your ex back...more