subject: Dealing With A Break Up Anytime [print this page] Dealing with a break up is required for having a flourishing future. Usually people think that it was all the mistake of their ex love partner. Actually this is not true because the problems always come from both sides. If the both people are compromising then they can go for long term however even if anyone is not compromising then problems may arise. If you had a break up then you should scrutinize and should check what mistakes you have made. Nobody is going to ask you about it but it would be for your own betterment and would help you to deal with a break up appropriately.
Everyone feels bad after break up and needs some time to grieve but this time span should be limited and one should try to get out of it as soon as possible. People learn lessons from their life and you should also take your previous relationship as a lesson. However, it would only be good if you would use this lesson in your future for making your life pleasant. If you have made any major mistakes which has caused break up with your ex love partner then you should not revise the same mistakes in future. If you would not repeat the same mistakes then it means that you have learned from your mistake.
If you want to deal with break up then you would have to be courageous enough to realize that your ex does not belong to you. A break up brings some changes in the life of a person and one has to accept these changes open heartedly. You surely would have selected some common goals with your ex love partner but now you would have to change them because your relationship does not exist know. Know you have to set up your goals according to your current requirements. One of your current requirements would be to have a happy life and that could be done by finding new love partner.
Your heart and mind would only accept the new person when it would have some empty space. You would have to get your ex love partner out of heart and mind in order to in order to arrange some space for new love partner. If you want to have a good future life then your new love partner should never feel that you still have your ex love partner in your mind.
