subject: A Nasty Breakup Does Not Mean The End - Get Him Back Even After He Has Repeatedly Rejected You [print this page] After your relationship ended in a breakup filled with heated words and accusations, you might want to put all of the blame on your shoulders. But, remember, there were two people involved and your ex boyfriend is as guilty as you are. Nasty breakups are not uncommon because of the amount of emotion involved. You might be about ready to give the whole thing up if you have tried to talk to him and he has repeatedly rejected you. But,if you love him it does not have to mean the end. The trouble may be that you are rushing things.
Anytime there is a breakup, there are bound to be hurt feelings on both sides and there must be a healing period. If you have been chasing, calling, and emailing you ex repeatedly, you need to step back and give him some space. Every time you harass him, it opens the old wounds and the healing process will take longer. If you stop having any contact with him your ex boyfriend will have more respect for you. If you can find the strength and determination to make the no contact period stretch into several weeks, he will begin to think you do not want him anymore and you are moving on.
Love does not die in an instant and your ex is still in love with you. When you were in his face all of the time he could not realize how much you meant to his life. Everytime you contacted him, it was like a continuation of the argument that caused the breakup. But given some time, he will begin to see his part of the problem. This in turn will make him start thinking of the good times he had with you and regret not talking to you. But men have a hard time admitting their mistakes so it will take a little while before his ego will let him humble himself.
Your ex boyfriend will be hoping that you will come back telling him you cannot live without him. The surprising thing is, that although he misses you and wants you back, he will reject you again. This is why you have to remain strong and make him be the first to make contact. When he does, do not make it too easy for him, but do not reject him to get revenge either. If you keep rejecting each other, you will never get back together. So let him keep his ego intact, but do not just fall into his arms either.
A Nasty Breakup Does Not Mean The End - Get Him Back Even After He Has Repeatedly Rejected You
