subject: Essentials To Save Your Relationship For Busy Married Professionals [print this page] Are you in a situation where you wanted to share some thoughts and feelings with your partner but you find that you are always busy and with no time to spare? This is a hint that your work life is too demanding and you are also spending too much time dealing with many miscellaneous home issues.
Your partner most probably will also experience hectic work life and demanding home life with demands like cleaning care of parents and children, doing housework and shop for groceries.
Are you facing the above situations now? If yes, you need to save your relationship now by learning how to deal with "Marriage Intensity".
Marriage intensity is the treadmill of 3 lives concentrated into one relationship. The 3 types of life are: work, home and love life. If you do not strike a balance, you will feel a state of intensity when the 3 lives come together, taking up all of your precious time.
When you are in the circumstances of the marriage intensity, even the smallest things in life will get on your nerves. This is often the beginning of many relationship disputes. It affects negatively on your emotions, feelings and actions and eventually, resulted in harmful impacts on your relationship.
Thus, marriage intensity is a post-modern phenomenon that requires you to identify it and to take action to defend against, in order to save your relationship.
Set aside quality time to focus only on your love relationship is the solution to marriage intensity. You don't need to set aside alot of time. You just need make sure that you are disciplined and do it consistently.
Here are 3 simple tips for you:
1. Make the time and the space for both of you to enjoy each other. Take the phone off the hook, get rid of the kids and put up a great big 'do not disturb' sign.
2. Do some reflections and create a list of events which your partner and you enjoy doing togetehr! It could be a stroll in the park after dinner, preparing breakfast for each other or watching your favourite DVDs on the sofa. It is similar to the outings when you first started out dating your partner.
3. Communicate with your partner about the relationship's past, present and future state. Share your fears, hopes and ideas. Discuss on your proposal with your partner and deliver the changes for the better together.
