subject: Seduction Secrets To Building Your Self Confidence Up So You Attract More Women - Part 5 [print this page] Author: Jay Sullivan Author: Jay Sullivan
Once you start chatting to a woman, what might happen is that your mind may go blank for a few seconds and those negative thoughts might re-appear. If you haven't had time to really prepare yourself, and everything else is failing, go for diversion tactics.
The very last thing you will want is for anxious thoughts to start appearing in your mind, because you're more than likely doomed when you start thinking she's way too good for me or She's way out of my league.
You see as soon as you allow these thoughts to enter your mind, you'll
experience anxiety symptoms such as a racing heart beat or get all flustered and start mumbling your words. These are all things you don't want to experience because you want to have a good time with this woman, and take things further.
These symptoms are irritating, and can feel very unpleasant, not to mention the fact that all you really want to do is to enjoy the moment you have managed to get with the woman you like.
So what exactly is a diversion tactic? Well, it's a way of distracting your mind, and changing your way of thinking, and doing whatever it takes to prevent any negative thoughts from appearing. It does take time to learn this technique, but once you master it, it can save
your bacon in a lot of situations, and not just when it comes to approaching women!
So what can you do that will distract your mind from thinking negative
thoughts I hear you ask? Some diversion tactics you can use are:
Chewing gum
playing with something in your hands (not that either...)
Run through the alphabet in your mind
Sing a song you know in your head
Think of a funny joke
It doesn't really matter what it is you think of, as long as it's not a negative thought, that's all that matters! By doing the diversion tactic will stop any negativity in it's tracks, and put you back in control of the situation.
So, throughout this 5 part series I gave you some facts about women, and the way they thought. I've reassured you that women are only human and are just like us men.
They are not evil monsters who will bust your balls if you try to speak to them. Women are not the enemy at all.
In most cases men are really their own worst enemy when it comes to
approaching women. It's our own negative thoughts, anxieties and fears of rejection that stop us from getting the women we want.
But I think by now, you already know this don't you?
What I am trying to point out, is the fact that no matter how many secret books on seduction you read, no matter how many sleazy pickup lines you try out, no matter how many secret methods you try to get women into bed with, if you simply work on your fears, anxieties and more importantly your confidence, the rest will just take care of itself!
The sooner you realize that you are worthy, and can get any women your heart desires, and that women are simple creatures, just like you and me, the more easier you will find it to approach women, which in turn will make your confidence grow to unbelievable measures.
Good luck in your seduction game, and here's to all those sexy chicks you're going to be getting pretty soon...
This is part 5 of a 5 part guide. You can get the other parts from our site below.
