subject: Forgive And Forget: The Four Things You Have To Say To Your Wife For Cheating [print this page] Saying the wrong words to your wife will just make your cheating worse. Luckily, there are four things you can say to make her forgive you. Take time thinking on these things as why they are necessary.
1)Tell her, never in your life had you given up on loving her. She has to know that the cheating did not mean you are not truly madly deeply in love with her anymore. Did she believe your love with the other woman was not as magical as your love with her? If it is so, then she will feel that it's more about your never-ending genuine love to her.
2)You have to explain to your wife that you never meant to hurt her. Let her know how much the pain she is feeling hurts you. Be careful that you don't come off as trying to make this about you and not her but let her know that you would do things differently if you could go back and make changes that would have avoided hurting her.
3)Divert your wife's self-regard as being accused. To make things worse, she will pocket more grudges that will block your way for forgiveness. These grudges have grown out of the belief that she did something to shoo you away. Sometimes thinking that she doesn't satisfy you or she let you down for uncountable reasons. If this isn't the case, then you will fortunately free her of these emotional labors. After that, she will be more open to hear what you have to say importantly.
4)Tell the magic word - SORRY. Saying you are sorry is the most unselfish thing you will ever do to a woman. More especially when you barely say this to your wife in the extent of your marriage. It will be perceived strongly in making her compel to forgive you. You have to say this word above all times you nearly destroyed your marriage, you disproved the thought you are forever, and so many other consequences that resulted. No more further explanation, just be plain truthful that you are really sorry.
