subject: 3 Tips to Get Your Ex Back Quickly [print this page] Have you gone through a break up and now you want to make up and pick up where you left off? It can be tricky to win back a partner after a break up, but there are several ways that you can make amends and fix the relationship. Here are 3 tips for getting your ex back, which can help you enormously.
Before you even think about fixing the relationship or even contacting your ex, you need to take some time to analyze where the relationship went wrong. Sometimes the problem is glaringly obvious and other times it can be a series of more subtle things that caused the relationship to end.
Once you have worked out the real reasons behind the split, then you should do a little personal improvement before seeking them out again. Try to work on some of the things that your partner disliked or found difficult about you, also spruce yourself up with a mini makeover to give you more confidence and make yourself more attractive to them.
Once you have spent some time on self improvement, then you can begin to make gentle contact with your ex. Going in all guns blazing begging for forgiveness is unlikely to work. Start out slowly by sending an email or text telling them about something that you saw that reminded you of them or a happy time that you shared together. It could also be something that you know they would be interested in or something they would find funny.
Getting a mutual friend on board can be invaluable if you have someone that fits the bill. They can drop subtle bits of information about how you are doing and how much you have changed for the better and miss them.
Don't be tempted to shower your ex with flowers, gifts, cards, poetry or chocolates. You might think that these will win them back, but they rarely work and can just be annoying, creepy or insulting. Don't be a doormat or give all your power way either. Keep in contact with them and let them see how fabulous you are without forcing the idea on them.
Getting your ex back can take some time, but if you are serious about wanting to make amends, then it is worth the effort. By using the above 3 tips for getting your ex back, then you can achieve it and your relationship will be stronger than ever.
