subject: How To Make Your Ex Return Your Call, The First Steps to Get Your ex Back [print this page] Hi, Hi,
Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Well yes and no. They may not be really magic but they REALLY work and they practically compel your ex to return your call.
Pretty neat huh?... I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions people just like you ask when they are trying to put their relationship back together. This is one of the first steps to get your ex back, please pay attention. I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
BUT... BE WARNED!
In the Magic Of Making Up, a complete strategy is laid out. But if you use this technique alone, without a plan or strategy... you will likely damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
What NOT to Say!
Taking those steps to get your ex back takes rational thought so first let's go over what messages almost NEVER work. and worse... can put you in an even worse position.
Those usually fall into two categories.
The BEGGING- Where the message sounds like
"Carol, call me please...? This is the 4th time I've left a massage. I NEED to talk to you."
And, of course, the EMERGENCY-
"Dave, it's an emergency. Please call me ASAP."
Now, we can all see what's wrong with both of those ideas? Right?
Using Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage works better than anything else.
And here's the BIG SECRET! When you use both, you have a combo that WILL work! So... Let's look at what you can say that works almost ALL the TIME.
Using a friendly tone of voice:
"Hi Carol. It's Dave. I appreciate what you did for me and I want to thank you in person. Call me?"
Did you catch how that used both curiosity and self interest?
Carol WON'T be able to resist! "He thinks I did something good?" "He appreciates something I did?" she will be thinking. And she feels good because it's a positive message.
Now before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what she did that you appreciate. It can be just about anything...but needs to be believable. But more importantly...
BE WARNED!
Make sure you have an underlying strategy like it is laid out in the Magic Of Making
Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this idea without an underlying strategy and they do call you back you can do more BAD than good if you don't handle it properly. Okay?
This is just one of the steps to get your ex back. What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is as important or even more so than getting them to return your call in the first place.
Understand?
Have a PLAN!==>
Good Luck,
How To Make Your Ex Return Your Call, The First Steps to Get Your ex Back
