subject: Infidelity Signs: 3 Red Flags You Need To Know [print this page] Ignorance is not blissIgnorance is not bliss. Both men and women can be just as unfaithful as the other. The feeling of someone cheating on you no matter how hard you try to conceal it can be troubling. It poisons your mind and may cause you to see your spouse in a different shade. If you suspect that your spouse is cheating on you, it is important and it is for your best interests that you should know the surefire signs of a cheating spouse. Knowing the signs will either help you confirm or disprove the accusation.
So, before you point a finger of infidelity, here are three major signs to keep a lookout for:
1)Your spouse is growing distant. If your spouse has grown distant or is starting to pull away from you and all the things your normally do together it creates an atmosphere that is ripe for cheating. The closer you are to one another, the more things you do together, as a couple, the stronger your bond to each other will be. This means that you will be less likely to suffer from the same wedges that divide other couples and make cheating an attractive option.
2)If he's been rather invisible for a week or so and has been spending time with work and other side activities, then you might be willing to leave some of your work, too in the office. Both of you might probably be busy and so spend less and less time together. Your marriage can be jeopardized if time spent together is neglected. The more time both of you spend alone, the more likely will either of you be tempted to cheat. Throw away the odds and spend quality time with your spouse just like the good old days.
3)Certain personality quirks and chief changes in attitude are more subtle signs, but can also be a clue of unhappiness. Discontentment more often that not can make your marriage vulnerable to temptations. Before infidelity whispers, take the time to talk it out with your partner and discuss things that has been going on with both you. Roll up your sleeves in doubling the effort to get to the heart of the problem, if there is any. Make your home a happy place to live where you can go home every night without anything to worry about in your relationship.
Don't wait around for bad things to happen. Even if they have and your marriage is over it doesn't mean that you can't take action right now that will get your ex back.
