subject: Catholic What To Do On A First Date by:Thomas Jones [print this page] Over the years, the accepted form of the first date has changed. Back in the day, a guy would pick a girl up at home, meet her parents, drive her to a restaurant for dinner, then maybe a trip to the drive thru movie theater. But things are different now.
To have a successful first date, here are some do's and don'ts you should keep in mind.
Don't...
Pick up your date or be picked up by your date. Remember that the world is not as safe as it used to be. There are lots of scary people out there, so it is safer to be your own ride.
Bring gifts or flowers. This is a bit on the creepy side and can seem overwhelming on a first date. Save these for the second date or any time when you have gotten to know each other better.
Involve surprises. While it may seem romantic to plan a date that is a big surprise, remember that you are both really nervous. It is much better to save the cool surprise dates for later in your relationship.
Do...
Find a cool place to go. A memorable first date should be at a location that is unique. Why go to Red Lobster when you can go to the local mom n' pop seafood joint?
Clean up and look pretty. Be sure to be looking your best. Do all the little things you would do to make yourself as good looking as possible. Remember that some people are allergic to perfumes and colognes, so go light or do not wear any at all.
Have a plan. Leave yourself plenty of time to get to your date location. Being there way early is better than arriving late. Call the restaurant that you are planning on visiting to be sure the wait is not too long or put in a reservation if you can. Planning equals low stress and everyone wants a first date to have less stress!
Give a warm welcome. Read your date's body language to see whether a handshake is appropriate or your date is hug friendly! If you met your date online, do not forget to say how great it is to meet them in person.
Have conversation starters. Keep a few ideas in your pocket to pull out in case of awkward gaps in the conversation. Anything fun to keep the conversation flowing!
Wrap it up. Let your date know how you thought the evening went and go ahead and plan a second date if you get the feeling that they are interested in you as much as you are in them. Thank them for a great time and give them a hug (or kiss!) goodnight.
Remember that a first date is not a commitment. It is not a contract. There are no promises. Think of it like a fun job interview. You are getting to know one another and seeing if you get along and are compatible. If you are not, no harm! If you are then it is time to plan that second date!
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