subject: Avoid bad boys while dating [print this page] Some women are fascinated to bad boysSome women are fascinated to bad boys. They know that it is not strong to date them; however they just cannot stay away from them because they love the pleasure that comes from dating them. They feel that there is never a dull moment when they are around them.
A bad boy is someone who shows no respect to women. They never keep in mind your birthday, they never pay when you go on a date, they try to talk to your friends at the back, and they try to get you to maintain them financially. The number one motive that women like to date a bad boy is because they are never bored with them. Unlike dating someone who is good to them and knows how to care for them, they feel that there is never a dull moment and that the constant drama that they go through is rather exciting. As a matter of fact, they think that they need the drama in their lives and that these men must really need them.
The fact of the matter is that these men do not mainly need that woman, anyone will do that will put up with their constant foolishness. The woman needs to ask herself, what am I in receipt of out of this relationship? What is in it for me? At the end of the day she's not getting anything out of this relationship and it is not a very healthy situation for her to be in. She is letting this man run the value that she is putting on herself, therefore she has low self-esteem. She does not have a very good feeling about itself; therefore she will only allow a man in her life that reaffirms the way that she sees itself.
A woman, who loves herself, knows that she truly deserves a man who will love her and support her and be there for her in her time of need. She knows that it is not okay for men to mistreat her and that she deserves to be in a healthy relationship with a man who truly loves her and shows it every day with his actions and words. Someone who truly loves himself will not accept anything less in a relationship.
When a woman has spent her whole life feeling the need to take care of others and rescue those in need, she will likely choose to date a bad boy. She is more than likely seen this type of performance all her life from the men that have been in it. Some women even believe that it is okay to accept this type of a relationship. It is never okay to accept this sort of behavior from a man because the more you allow him to mess up where you are concerned, the more it will continue to happen. What is really sad is that if these women have children with these men, the children will grow up thinking that this is acceptable behavior.
So boys grow up to contempt women and walk all over them, the little girls will think that it's okay for a man to treat me this way because this is the way that I saw my mother being treated by the man she chose to have in her life.
If you're a woman who is dating someone who cannot be thankful for you and treat you the way that you be worthy of to be treated, there is a possibility that you are dating a bad boy. Please sit back and think about why you allow yourselves to be treated in this manner. If you do not feel that you are worthy of having anybody else love you, please consider getting help to find out why your self-esteem is so low.
