subject: What Should I Do to Get My Ex Back [print this page] Author: Steven Swank Author: Steven Swank
When you break up with someone you love, you go through lots of painful emotions.
You feel sad, depressed, hurt, and you miss them. What should I do to get my ex back? becomes a question you constantly ask yourself. There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and courses designed to answer
this question but common sense and common courtesy can go a long way toward healing your relationship. They can really make a difference after a breakup.
If youre preoccupied with your lost relationship, wondering what should I do to
get my ex back? then follow this simple advice. Youll give yourself the best chance of getting back together with that special someone.
Dont play games. This is very important. Unfortunately many people resort to this during breakups because it gives them a sense of power. If you can make the other person think that you dont care or you care more than you really do, youre manipulating them and that can feel great. But it wont feel great for long.
Eventually youll realize that lying and tricking the other person isnt a good thing. Anything good that happens because of it will always be sullied because of the lie.
Some people play games where they pretend to be dating someone else or they
pretend to be in love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex jealous. While it does work now and then, other times it makes the breakup permanent
because it backfires.
Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you being with someone else that
they want you back. On the other hand, they could decide that since you moved on so quickly, you really don't care about them anyway. You have no way of knowing which way this ploy will work until its too late.
Dont be mean. This holds true in any situation or any relationship but sometimes
the anger around a breakup makes us act more viciously than we might normally. Even if youre hurt, the fact that you want to know, What should I do to get my ex back? shows that youre ready to forgive that person. If you couldnt, you wouldnt want your ex back. Youd be glad it was over.
Think about how youve been acting. If you were your ex, would you look forward
to spending time with you, talking to you or would you look towards each encounter
with dread? Do you shout and nag? Even if you feel like raising all kinds of arguments, dont. Work very hard at controlling your hurtful anger and be a person they can miss.
What should I do to get my ex back? Be on your best behavior and make your ex remember what drew them to you in the first place. Theyll remember your good points and will miss them. You'll then have a better chance of being able to get back together.About the Author:
"I am serious about helping others with their relationships. Over the course of my life, I didn't always do things right in my own relationships. This caused a great deal of pain not only for me but to those I cared about. I don't want that to happen to anyone else." Steven's website http://relationsplace.com provides articles and professional materials for those seeking help in all aspects of their relationship.
