subject: What Makes a Man Want to Marry a Woman – Insight into How Men View Commitment [print this page] Author: Gillian Reynolds Author: Gillian Reynolds What makes a man want to marry a woman? Thats the ultimate question for any woman in love with a man who just wont seem to commit to her. Most of us have heard of at least one woman who dated a man for a number of years, only to go through a break up and hear that he was marrying someone else a few months later. Why is it that there are some women a man cant seem to wait to marry while with others he wont even entertain the possibility of a serious relationship? Is there a secret that married women know that single women in long term, uncommitted relationships dont? There just may be. If youre a woman who wishes her guy would pop the question, you need to learn how to make him crave a commitment with you. Once you understand how most men view commitment, you can be walking down the aisle towards your future husband in no time. One answer to what makes a man want to marry a particular woman is friendship. We dont always recognize the value of friendship as a basis for a long term committed relationship, but it is. Ensure that your boyfriend knows that youre his friend. Support him in any way you can and be sure that youre there to listen to him, whether his issues are small or large. If he feels like youre his best friend, in addition to his romantic partner, hell feel even closer to you. Thats exactly what you want when you are trying to get him to commit to marriage. Many men have a distorted view of what commitment really means. They have visions of a life that has to be devoted exclusively to their wife. They think that once they say I do theyll lose all sense of their self along with their freedom. If you fear that your guy may be experiencing feelings like this, you need do whatever you can to show him thats just not the case in your relationship. The best way to ensure a man knows that you have no intention of stealing his freedom away is by staying invested in your own life. Dont give up time with your friends in favor of spending time with your man and dont pout when he wants to chase his own interests. Hell love you more if you allow him to always be himself. If he feels that marriage with you wont take away his own identity, that it will instead enrich it, hell love the thought of being your husband.About the Author:
There are specific things that any woman can say and do that will make her man want to commit to her. If you believe that he is the man you are destined to be with there are things you can do right now that will make him feel exactly the same way about you.
You don't have to wait for him to decide whether or not he's ready to commit to you. If you are tired of putting your dreams on hold because he's commitment phobic, there are things you can do to make him want to marry you now. Learn right now what you need to do to make him fall to his knees and beg you to marry him.
