subject: Are You Considering Proposing Marriage? [print this page] Author: Janet Boulton Author: Janet Boulton
A marriage can mean many things. Devotion, love, and the chance to spend the rest of your life with the one you love. Although a long-term relationship is not for everyone, it allows for true love to be expressed in a lifelong agreement, which will prepare you for a life full of memories that you would have not shared if not for marriage. Marriage is not something that has to be rushed into or is it even necessary to be truly in love, but it can mold a relationship to what it could have never become before. Man never discovered new lands until he had the confidence to leave the bay While marriage should never be rushed into, it should be nothing to be afraid of if you are truly devoted and ready. The first step to marriage is the proposal. Its timing is essential, and there are some obvious signs that you are ready. One of the first is beginning to live with your partner everyday for an extended period of time. Living with your partner is like being able to glimpse into the future regarding what you should expect from marriage. It is at this time that the unique bonding and process of understanding each other is undertaken. If you can not imagine loving and living with this person for the rest of your life, how will you have the confidence to propose to them? Proposal should happen in a place both of you find very romantic, a place that is some where you want to remember proposing in, and most importantly, a place both of you will be comfortable. Just remember, proposal does not have to be anywhere, it can happen from the middle of the street to the openness of the country side. Never be nervous, they will always say yes if they already know the answer. You should already be having the time of your life with this person anyways, if not, why would you even consider proposing to them in the first place? Never feel as if marriage is something that people do just because they are expected to or that to be considered normal you must find love at a young age. True love will never have to be looked for; it will come naturally upon meeting the person right for you. Never rush, and always wait longer as opposed to proposing sooner. It should not be relevant to the one you love if you are married or not, if you are both meant for each other marriage can come at any time of your life, even in retirement. The boundaries of love should not be impeded by the need of marriage, so never allow yourself to become convinced it is necessary. Always remember, marriage is just a term society has placed on love, don't allow yourself to be sucked in, and marriage will be great for you.About the Author:
Janet Boulton is the owner of an online virtual assistant business and also creates articles on a wide range of topics. Visit her latest website http://www.obdiiscanner.net that helps you find the best obd ii scanner available from a wide range of sources.
