subject: 5 Main Danger Signs In Relationships That Tell You To End It Now! [print this page] Have you ever met someone and thought you have met the perfect person for you? You are on cloud nine, elated and everything is going to plan Then little faults start appearing and you start to wonder If it all seems too perfect, it in all probability is. By reading this article you will uncover 5 danger signs in relationships that will tell you to dump him or her.
1.Control
Does your partner pester you with questions all the time about your movements at every single minute of the day. Does he or she phone you when you are away, questioning when you will return or does he or she appear when you are spending time with other people to see that you are behaving? Calculating behaviour also shows itself when someone tries to refuse to give love until you give into their what they want you to do. If this is happening, this is control. It is one of the major danger signs in relationships because if that power over a person is gone, this can lead to violent feelings and even physical cruelty.
2.Contempt
Maybe when you first started dating, your partner was always explaining to you how relieved he or she was not to be with that unpleasant person he or she was with before. It is a certainty that as the relationship goes on, you will be the focus of the contempt. If he or she is overly disparaging about what you say or do or what you put on, if he or she puts you down in public, then this is in all probability happening already.
3.Justifications
Are you always justifying his or her actions? He or she forgot your birthday or just didn't appear again but you are always finding a way to explain why that was the case. He is or she is not looking after you emotionally and is simply doing what suits him or her. This sort of lack of respect is very dodgy and it will only get worse.
4.Not enough Honesty and Open Communication
Now I'm not even talking here about someone who tells lies to you. That would be a pretty dangerous sign. A reluctance or unwillingness to speak about certain issues can be just as bad. This evasion of true communication leads to remoteness and a lack of intimacy between you. In order for a relationship to mature you have to be willing to talk about complicated as well as agreeable areas and you certainly don't want to have to tip toe around someone in case they don't like what you are saying to them.
5.Jealousy
Does your partner flirt with the opposite sex and then get angry when you say you don't like it. Alongside this is the incapacity of a partner to bear you speaking to the opposite sex. Jealousy is a indication of tremendous insecurity and is a major danger sign in relationships since this lack of self-confidence can lead to a need for control, anger issues and physical or emotional abuse.
So if you notice any of these 5 danger signs in relationships it is time to get out of this relationship but don't walk, run!
