subject: Approaching Women - What's Stopping You, And How To Approach Women Easily [print this page] You've had your eyes on her all night longYou've had your eyes on her all night long. You have been careful to make sure that she has not really noticed how often you keep checking her out. Scanning the rest of the room, you can tell that to you, she is the most beautiful girl in the club.
And you want to be able to walk over and talk to her.
You are already seeing yourself in your own mind, walking over to her, dropping the smoothest line that you can come up with, and making her smile. There's only one problem. All of this is happening inside of your own head and not in reality.
When it comes time to actually do it, you have a hard time getting yourself to make the move.
So, you continue to do what you have been doing all night long, and just watch her from a distance.
The night is getting on and pretty soon, either she will be leaving, or the club will be closing for the night.
What's it going to be?
Are you going to gain the courage and FINALLY do it?
Or are you going to let tonight be like all of the other nights and go home alone, dreaming about her, but not ever saying a word?
Approaching a woman has to be amongst the most common fears that men have when it comes to meeting women. The very thought of having to walk up to a woman that you do not know and trying to do something, anything at all to make a good impression on her can be a little overwhelming. Really, it can be more than just a little overwhelming.
You have to be able to get over it though. If you don't, you know that the only conclusion to this story is that you are going to end up with a lot more nights like tonight. And a man can only do so much "dreaming" about a woman before it becomes old.
You want the REAL thing.
Here's how you are going to get over it:
1) You are going to have to STOP making it such a big deal in your own mind. You know that when you see a beautiful woman, automatically your mind makes it out to be some incredibly big thing and you bring on the pressure yourself. You have to stop doing this if you are going to approach women and not even think twice about it.
2) You are going to start looking at women as being on the same level as anyone else that you know. You would not think twice about walking over to one of your buddies would you? And why not? Because there is no pressure there. Well, that is the same way that you have to see approaching a woman.
3) Approaching a woman is going to be EASY for you, when you start to understand female attraction and HOW to trigger it almost at will in any woman that you meet. How can you not be confident about walking over to her when you KNOW that you can easily trigger attraction in her and make her want YOU?
