subject: How Can I Get My Ex Back Today [print this page] 3) Now you must determine if you even want them back. Why do you want them back? Were they right to judge the relationship as they saw? Are there some things you need to change to win them back? If you just cannot stop thinking about them and you do find yourself wanting them back more and more you need to show them that you are still that person they fell in love with. Wear that perfume or cologne they bought for you on Valentines' day. Dig out that suit she bought you for your birthday. Wear that blouse you got for Christmas. Show them you are the person they fell in love with and that you are willing to, at least, adjust your thinking.
