subject: Military Dating: Adopting The "no Guts, No Glory" Attitude [print this page] Do you think it's okay for you to take the first step in contacting your uniform dating prospect? Do you need to wait for your Prince Charming to contact you? Not sure of the answers? Go on and find out!
The times have changed. The good news is that it has changed for the better! Now, women don't have to sit idly by and wait for their army singles to come and woo them. Also, as much as military singles would love to always play Knight in Shining Armor, women nowadays are not big fans of being the damsel in distress anymore. But admit it, once in a while, it's nice to play the helpless damsel with your big, strong knight to the rescue, right? But most of the time? It's good to assert one's power as a woman!
We are already in the age of girl power and women empowerment. Damsels in distress? Pshh! We can be our own helpers and be in charge of our own love lives. Especially in Uniform Dating.
The answer? Yes, absolutely!
Many women still have total hesitations like thoughts which may go, "Would it be okay for me to approach him first? But what would he think of me then?!" or "What kind of self-respecting woman would contact the man first?!" or else, "I'm sure that my Knight in Shining armor is coming soon, so I should just wait." Alright, so cut out these thoughts because they aren't helping you get your military single date.
First, let us establish the FACT that it is now completely accepted for women to initiate the first contact in Uniform Dating. Us ladies just cannot afford to just let fate and random circumstance drive our love lives.
Actually, in a research done by one online dating site, it was revealed that men actually like it when the women contact them first. They see it as a compliment to be contacted first, and the woman who has the guts to initiate first? She gets a whopping 70% chance of being replied to. 70 percent! That's already a very, very good chance, come to think of it, right?
You know what they say, "no guts, no glory," and this is really applies in the Military Dating scene. So ladies, harden those guts and take your glory!
