subject: Relationship Advice - It's All in the Eyes [print this page] Author: Colin Martin Author: Colin Martin
The eyes have always played a mysterious role in human events. It is said that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and I believe that. We learn almost everything we know visually and use our eyes as our most primary sense. I can say that every time I have ever fallen in love, I was staring into the eyes of my partner. I could feel the connection right then and looking into her eyes I knew that she felt the same way. When I look into someone's eyes I see whole worlds of emotion and see the true essence of who they really are. The eyes give away all that we are and there is no way to hide your true feelings. When dating, making good eye contact is essential to making a proper connection. When someone is looking away during a conversation we assume that they are not listening. The eyes are not what we use to hear with, yet we believe that eye contact is creating a focus. I know you realize the huge difference it makes when one date you are with can't seem to focus on you and another will make good eye contact. Trust is created when eye contact is made and it personalizes the entire experience, making it seem like there is no one else in the world but you and he. But looking someone in the eye during conversation takes a little practice. It is not as natural an act as you may think. I have noticed that when talking with others, love interest or not, that good eye contact is rare. When it does happen, it makes the entire conversation that much more genuine. It is critical that when making the choice to trust someone or even decide to take a relationship to the next level, that your partner and you have a good eye connection. This is how the souls connect with each other. If you are uncomfortable looking someone in the eyes, you just need to practice a bit. It is an intimate act, just as brushing against someone unexpectedly. It can be very exciting. We play our initial courting games with the eyes as well. When connecting with a possible love interest from across a crowded room, it's her eyes alone that will tell you if your advances are welcome or not. There are goo-goo eyes, bedroom eyes, I only have eyes for you and the "mind's eye." When searching for your soulmate, you will know them through their eyes. Make sure you hold your head high and look up and into the windows of others or you may not see them for who they are. Make sure you are "present" for every date, every moment. Your eyes will tell the story of who you are and no one will have any doubt about your power and confidence. The soul that can speak through the eyes, can also kiss with a gaze... How do you create an everlasting quality for your relationship today? For nearly 20 years one man, Colin Martin, has searched for and found the number one secret to building an exceptional romantic relationship. The answer doesn't lie in the endless volumes of self help books and repetative talk shows ....but within yourself! About the Author:
Colin Martin has given over 2000 personal consultations to singles and couples alike to improve how they view their relationships.
