subject: Relationship Help - Follow Your Dreams [print this page] Author: Colin Martin Author: Colin Martin
When you are in a relationship with someone, it is important to share the dreams you have with your partner and find out theirs as well. Sometimes your relationship is the only comfortable and safe harbor to express your aspirations and goals. And it is very satisfying to know that someone else understands the importance of your dreams and will want to be a part of them. Often with your job and even your friends, you can't express just any opinion on how your life should be. Your employer is taking stock that you will be there for them when they need you. Your goals and dreams may not be in their best interest and they may unwittingly try and sabotage your goals. Strangely enough, friends have a tendency to do this as well...and they may not even know it. Relationships on the other hand, should be made up of two souls inhabiting the same dreams, experiences and common goals for a shared life together. Your partner knowing the whole of you, creates a freedom of expression for themselves. Like a shelter from the storm, it is critical that there is someplace and someone where you can be you. A place to share your dreams without repose. And an ability to express the very essence of your soul without judgment. Is your relationship one of freedom and trust? Getting to know another person completely is not only very enlightening and liberating, it is a gift. Someone else trusting you so wholly is something you can never buy, no matter the cost. Your dreams can never be taken from you no matter how hard the world may try. Sharing them with a partner who truly empathizes with those goals create a bond that is hard pressed to be broken. I've seen friends give up on their dreams when they no longer seemed important to them. The main reason their dreams no longer seemed important was the fact that they had no one to share them with. Sharing creates reinforcement. The more you express your dreams the more real they become, and not just in your mind, but the mind of the world. Your dreams are your next moment of your reality. Remaining with them creates your future life and sharing them creates a life of beauty with another soul. How do you create an everlasting quality for your relationship today? For nearly 20 years one man, Colin Martin, has searched for and found the number one secret to building an exceptional romantic relationship. The answer doesn't lie in the endless volumes of self help books and repetative talk shows....but within yourself! About the Author:
Colin Martin has given over 2000 personal consultations to singles and couples alike to improve how they view their relationships.
