subject: Relationship Advice - The Closest Couple You Know [print this page] Author: Colin Martin Author: Colin Martin
We all are in some kind of relationship or another. Dating, looking, engaged or in a long term situation. In each of these scenarios you are making decisions...ones that will affect the future of the relationship. We don't always make the right choices, but using examples of the couples we admire will keep us more on track and keep less of our egos out of the equation. Who are the people in your life that you respect most? Just pick two and think about why they are important to you. Is there a couple that you have known in life that epitomizes the perfect relationship? Neighbors, friends or even your own parents? They have made decisions in their lives that made them happy and made an impact on you. When you make your choices about your relationships, will you make these people proud? We make decisions everyday. Some are based on trying to do our best, but most are based on our ego...what am I going to get from this. After too many disappointing relationships, we tend to seek out the situations that will only benefit ourselves. This is my time... the Hell with everyone else. I want to be fulfilled, I want to be noticed, I want to be heard, I want to have it my way.."I", "I", "I"... Making choices that fill up what is missing from your life and using relationships to build stature for your confidence will not make you happy. It will turn out even worse than ever for you and it is not the kind of decisions that the couple you most admire made. It couldn't be...they would not still be together. I'm willing to bet that the couple you most admire make decisions only for what is best for the union. They realize that the sum of their union does not equal just 2 but something far greater, far more beautiful and far more rare than most people could ever see. The issues they have within themselves are cured by loving themselves first, and bringing that self love into the relationship. They keep ego out of it and bring the best of themselves to the relationships. I can't tell you what decisions to make. After you read this you will do whatever you want. But think of that couple you admire most. Will they be proud of the decisions you make? Will they be proud of how your relationship will turn out? Will you show them the power you possess not only in your public life, but especially your private life? Will you create the love that you deserve and show the world that you have not given up? Stand up and make the right choices. Be a game-changer and not just a spectator. Show everyone that you have the power over your happiness and success and you know what? You'll be part of a couple that someone else will admire most. Your life will have meaning and change the future of someone else's existence. How do you create an everlasting quality for your relationship today? For nearly 20 years one man, Colin Martin, has searched for and found the number one secret to building an exceptional romantic relationship. The answer doesn't lie in the endless volumes of self help books and repetitive talk shows...but within yourself! About the Author:
Colin Martin has given over 2000 personal consultations to singles and couples alike to improve how they view their relationships.
