subject: How To Make Him Desperate To Get You Back - Act Like You Don't Care And He Will Come Running [print this page] The fact that there was a breakup does not mean that your ex no longer loves you. Take a look at yourself, you still love your guy, so why would he not still love you? Your answer might be 'but, he broke up with me'. He might have been the one that walked out, but you have to face the fact that you had your part in the split too. On the other hand, you should not be shouldering all of the blame either. If you do try to accept the blame, it will make you start calling your ex boyfriend crying and begging him to forgive you. That will not work either because he is still upset with you and will probably hang up on you.
There has to be a cooling off period after any breakup. A time to think things through, and when neither of you contacts the other. This will show respect for each others feelings and make getting back together much easier. When you act desperate and continually stay in his face, there can be no time for him to sort things out and begin to miss you. You have to treat a breakup as a healing period, and there can be no healing if you keep reopening the wound. Even if you think that by talking to him you can make him see the two of you should be together, you have to be patient. You have to take a step back and have no contact for a few weeks.
You will have a lot of things to occupy your time anyway. This is a great time to work on any faults you may have that could have contributed to the breakup. You will also want to get your emotions under control and show him that you are mature enough to accept the breakup. Showing him a strong self confident woman will make you much more desirable. Men want to be with a woman they feel can be counted on in a crisis. By trying to get him back you are showing yourself to be needy and desperate.
If you ignore him and act as if you do not care, he will soon feel that the breakup might have been a big mistake. You do not want to date other men to try to make him jealous, but you can make him worry about losing you. Get dressed in his favorite outfit and wear your hair the way he always liked it. Next go out with some friends and visit places your ex hangs out. Let him see you having a great time without him and then disappear.
Since you have given him time to think things through, he is already thinking of contacting you. Seeing you looking the way that always drove him wild will make want to get you back right now. Your ex will try calling you, but let him leave messages. When you do not return his calls, he will become desperate to get you back and he will come running, to apologize to you.
How To Make Him Desperate To Get You Back - Act Like You Don't Care And He Will Come Running
