subject: Building Self-confidence [print this page] From a child to the elderly, from the labourer to the Manager, Self confidence is important to all. It is well said that opportunities and success knocks at the doors of only those who are confident about themselves. No peers, managers or people around you show confidence in you unless you are confident about you and your moves. So it is very much important that you always sport that Self-confidence in you.
Each one of us have self confidence deep-rooted within ourselves but only a few get those qualities in front of world and some surrender themselves to fear and unseen future.
Is there any way to cultivate self confidence in people?
Well, the answer is yes. There are many ways to build self-confidence in the person provided the person will-fully and with faith follow them. To discuss few ways best known to build self confidence are:
Prepare yourself to get started: Indeed, the journey to self confidence begins with you and your preparedness to begin. Inorder to give yourself a good start you first need to analyse your qualities, your strengths and weakness.
There are five ways to get yourself prepared to build self-confidence
1.Analyse your strengths, weakness and your achievements.
2.Think about the qualities which really bother you.
3.Jot down the once you consider are really important to you and the once which you need to improve.
4.Manage your mind and train it to walk the path of confidence.
5.See yourself on the path of success.
Setting out goals: This is the actual stage where you start moving towards your goal. Confidence building is not just an overnight success. In order to see yourself boosting with confidence, you also need to keep yourself on the track i.e. keep yourself focused on the basis.
The best way to assure your success in confidence building is to set small goal for yourself and try as far as possible to win them. Keep yourself determined on achieving these goals and this alone shall work wonders for you. Such small goals will also help you eliminate fears and will leave you feeling happy and overwhelming confidence.
And yes, while doing so, always try to keep your mind on track. Moving away from your focus could be a hindrance to your success.
Accelerate the path to confidence building: By the time you reach this stage, you must have achieved almost 90% success in building self-confidence. Here all you need to do is set bigger goals and challenges for yourself. These goals should be those which you feel are tough or almost impossible to overcome. And again stretch your abilities to the possible extent to match these goals.
Building confidence is neither hard nor an easy task. It all depends on how you train your mind to focus on the path and keep it determined to achieve success. All it requires is the will-power and courage to overcome these.
No coaching classes or training institutes can build confidence in you unless you are ready for it.
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