subject: Signs That He Might Be Unsure About The Divorce [print this page] I pushed too hard when I started to suspect that my husband didn't really want a divorce. This was a huge mistake. My inflexibility back fired. Thankfully, I finally realized I was doing more harm than good and was able to change course, follow the steps I just outlined for you, and save the marriage. You can read a very personal story on my blog at http://isavedmymarriage.com/.