subject: 7 Important Steps In Getting Your Ex Back [print this page] Women who have broken up with their boy friends have been known to try very many strange things in their efforts to woo them back. However, if you are interested in getting your ex back, you do not have to use trial and error, as you may end up doing more harm than good. The things mentioned here will help you to have a powerfully streamlined strategy that is bound to bring positive results.
1) Be strong
You need to demonstrate your strength to your ex boy friend - not by beating him! You should show the kind of inner strength you possess. Men are not impressed by weak women who have clear signs of vulnerability.
2) Be honest
As the saying goes, honesty is the best policy. Yet many couples do not exercise it in their relationships. It is not that they necessarily have any ill intent. Perhaps you may use some dishonesty in an effort to protect your partner from some pain. Unfortunately, this tends to result in even greater pain later on. It is better to hurt your partner's feelings for a brief period rather than creating more permanent damage with time. Your ex is bound to respect you when you are honest even with painful issues.
You should not try to hide your true feelings. For instance, you should not tell your ex that you wish him a good future in your absence if this is not really true.
3) Demonstrate a sense of pride
Do not let your break-up tear you apart. Your ex will take notice when you do not break down in a fit of emotions, which often leads to mistakes.
4) Be tenacious
If you are convinced that your ex is really the man you would like to have in your life, you should not give up on him. Although you will need some time apart just after your break-up, you should make him aware that you still value him.
The way you do this matters a lot. Being some kind of a stalker is bound to backfire.
5) Prepare a good plan
People have achieved things that were assumed to be impossible in different areas by having good plans. The same applies to relationships. You need to lay down a very detailed plan on how you intend to get back your ex.
6) Be patient
When you have broken up with your ex, you should not expect some kind of magical switch that will bring you back together in a snap. Just as a break-up does not happen in an instant, you should not expect instant reconciliation. You should exercise patience even as you carry out your plan. Make appropriate timing to avoid messing things up.
7) Be kind
Kindness is a very powerful quality that can soften even very hard people. You should be kind to all those you come in contact with. Don't worry; your ex is bound to hear about it.
