subject: I Want My Ex Back – Here's How To Do It [print this page] 5) Finally, create a destiny where both of you can strive for together. While some believed that fate plays an important role in our lives, it is down to ourselves to choose the life we want to live. When you have a shared sense of destiny with your partner, there is a goal and a place for both of you to move forward together. You have to inject new ideas and scenarios when you want your ex back.