subject: Do You Know How To Use Male Psychology To Make Him Come Running Back? - Getting Your Ex Back Fast! [print this page] A breakup is always an emotional experience and it is not all one sided. The fact that your ex boyfriend broke up with you does not mean he is not hurting too. However men show their hurt in a different way than women. When you are hurt you cry and may run to your best girlfriend and pour your heart out. But, you guy just goes off by himself and wants to be left alone. This is why there should be no contact between the two of you for a while. You want to talk things out and he rejects you. This makes you start to cry and beg and he pulls farther away.
That is why you need to think like a man in order to make him come running back. I have asked this question of many women and usually it makes them feel that i am going to get into something that is hard to understand. The question is - Do you know how to use male psychology? The answer is almost always no. Then I point out to them that they have been using it with men most of their lives and they are mystified. When I go on to add that they have been unconsciously pushing male hot buttons, they become more confused. Yet this is how you attracted your ex to begin with.
When you first met your ex boyfriend, you were a carefree and happy woman. You noticed this guy staring at you and you turned away from him. That was using male psychology because it made you seem unattainable. Men like a challenge and the harder a woman is to get, the more he will chase her. This is just the way men are. They want something they cannot have and they love to pursue. Women have the instinct to play hard to get and let the man think he is choosing her, when all of the time she is doing the choosing.
Getting your ex back, is no different than getting him the first time. You need to make yourself seem unavailable and get him to chase you again. That means you should drop off his radar and make him wonder what happened to you. It would work best if you could take a vacation or visit out of town relatives and friends. If that is not possible, make sure you stay out of his sight. Given some time to experience his life without you, he will begin to miss you. This will cause him to ask your friends what you are doing. If you have been out of town, they can honestly say they have not seen you.
This news will cause him to have all kinds of thoughts about where your are and none of them will be good. He will wonder if you met some guy and run off with him. Thinking this will make him see how much he still loves you and needs you in his life. When this happens, the hot button that makes him desperate to have you back has been pushed. Soon he will be calling and begging for you to meet him for a talk.
Do You Know How To Use Male Psychology To Make Him Come Running Back? - Getting Your Ex Back Fast!
