subject: Get a Guy Back - Is That Possible After A Breakup [print this page] Your plan should work, but give it some timeYour plan should work, but give it some time. You can't rush your ex into thinking that it is his loss that you are no longer a part of his life. Some men just don't get it right away, but when they do, they would usually initiate a reconciliation. Take your time and let him do the work of gaining your affection back.