subject: How To Win My Ex Lover Back - Follow These Simple Steps [print this page] Many people go through a breakup every dayMany people go through a breakup every day. You may be thinking how to win my ex lover back. If you are done feeling like you are the culprit and want to put some work into winning your ex lover back, then there is hope for you. The fact is that about 90 % of all relationships can be salvaged if you go about it the right way. There are some important things you should - and more importantly, should not - do immediately following a breakup.
1. Consider why you broke up in the first place.
Even though you cannot go back into the past and change what happened, you can learn from the mistakes that were made and try to learn and grow from those experiences. If you want to make a relationship work on a long term basis, you need to figure out what went wrong in the first place. Once you better understand the reasons he/she broke up with you, identify how you can resolve it so that it never comes up again.
2. Look your best - Be happy!
Shape up, and make yourself look good. Be the person he/she fell in love with. How have you changed? Correct bad habits and mistakes, if any. He/She's not going to want you back if you're acting depressed. Laugh and smile a lot. Stay strong and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself.
Try to stay positive and feel good about yourself. Try to surround yourself with new friends. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of winning your ex lover back.
Attempting to make your ex jealous will not work. Don't go overboard and make it seem like you are trying hard to make them jealous because it will show your ex that he/she should simply move on since you already have. If you are serious about winning your ex lover back, let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.
