subject: How To Attract Women - Confidence And Signs Of Attraction [print this page] It gets said so often, that it almost sounds like a broken record. Women are attracted to men that are confident. In fact, if you want to know how to attract women, confidence is probably the most important thing that you can possess. However, confidence alone is not going to allow you to attract all the women that you desire. You have to use more than just confidence to attract women.
So, where should you start?
First off all, confidence is something that most guys tend to be either hot or cold on and really, you want to be somewhere in the middle. Too much confidence and you can end up looking like an arrogant kind of guy, and too little and you end up being the push over who gets pushed over for the next man. So, when you work on your confidence around women, make sure that you don't under do it, or overdo it.
She NEEDS to be able to see that you are a confident guy.
Just feeling confident is not really the trick to attracting women. You have to know how to DISPLAY this to a woman. That means that you have to use the right body language, the right posture, and make her feel that you really are a guy that feels confident about himself.
You also have to look for her signs of attraction.
You want to pay attention to a woman's body language to see how she is responding to you. Body language can be kind of tricky when you are first learning how to read a woman, and you don't really want to jump to conclusions, especially the WRONG ones. A woman WILL give herself away, as long as you are paying attention to her.
You NEED to be seen as the alpha male of the crowd.
Wherever you are, you want to make women see you as being the alpha male of the crowd. Of course, she will assume that you have a lot of confidence if you are the alpha male, but also she will be intrigued at you being the 'leader' of the pack. You don't have to be loud and boisterous to come off as the alpha male. You can be kind of low key and still give off alpha male traits to a woman.
When it comes to attracting women, confidence will ALWAYS be at the top of the list of the alpha male traits that you must display. And when you combine that with knowing how to read signs of attraction from a woman, well, then you are GOOD to GO!
