subject: Surefire Ways to Get My Husband Back [print this page] Only after giving your husband and yourself some space and pointing out the root of your marital strain can you finally get in touch with your ex husband to talk. That is the first step to win him back. However, there are many things that you need to do beside these tips. That's why you need a strategic plan to win back the heart of your husband and even make him listens to you more than ever before.