subject: How to Ask a Woman Out - You Can Achieve Amazing Results by Just Asking [print this page] It's common sense time. It's common sense time.
This plagues men, every day, everywhere. You want to go out with a girl you know, but you don't seem to have the guts to ask her out. You take so long trying to build up the courage that someone who is less worried has already made dinner plans with her.
You need to think to yourself:
What is holding me back from asking out this woman?
Or more in the spirit of things.
What is stopping me asking out all the women I want to go out with?
It's fear. Fear of rejection.
Only 1 way over it. Get used to it. Rejection is nothing. Get rejected. Move on. Be pleasant, be polite. Move on. There are millions of fish in the sea.
So, to maximise the 'yes' answer and also to see if you really do want to date a particular woman, some tips:
* At least know her name and have done some preparation, no matter how minor.
* Does she drink? No point asking a teetotaller out for a drink, or an alcoholic for that matter, go the coffee route. Don't be tempted to do dinner.
* Make sure you are presentable. Nothing hanging from your nose, no bad breath, no spinach in your teeth.
* Don't just march up and blurt it out, be subtle for heaven's sake.
* Know exactly where you will suggest (close to your place, which should be clean and tidy. If she's unsure about dropping her clothes on your filthy floor you haven't got much hope of an ongoing affair). Nothing ruins a killer proposal quicker than you looking like a wimp and saying 'wherever you want to go'. Preparation is key. Have in mind a venue, a date, a time.
* Say Hi, make some minor small-talk, 'you fancy a drink one night? Yes, cool, how about tomorrow, Venue X? Great, 7ish suit you?'
* Swap numbers, have yours memorized please. People don't remember their own cell numbers, which is fine, but it makes you look far better if you do know it.
* Piece of cake.
You gotta get over those nerves and trust me, the only way, is to keep plugging away. You'll be nervous a couple of times and then it will be like taking candy from a baby. When you get a 'no' it won't phase you at all. You will be untouchable.
How to Ask a Woman Out - You Can Achieve Amazing Results by Just Asking
