subject: The Key to Success With Women - Preparation is the Key to Success With Women [print this page] The key to long lasting success with women is this simple thing. Spadework.
You might not know what I mean by that, so here's a brief explanation:
Spadework is the groundwork you lay, before get the woman of your dreams. It's the preparation you put in before you make your pentultimate move.
Now, generally, guys who don't get many chicks will do this:
* Try to convince the girl he likes that he's a nice guy
* Keep trying to convince her of this until he realises that she's never going to go out with him, because he's found himself in the dreaded Friend Zone
That is spadework, but the only thing you're digging is a grave for your manhood.
Here is how a moderately successful with women guy will do his spadework:
* Make sure he meets the strange new hottie
* Introduces himself
* Has brief conversations with her, to find out what he needs to know (married, straight, fake breasts, that sort of thing)
* Keeps the contact going by saying Hi every day, smiling at her, checking her out subtly yet obviously
That'll work, for the short-term
Now, here's how a guy who's never short of a date will do it:
* Do all the above that the moderately successful guy will do
* Do it with every woman you feel even slightly attracted to
* All the time
* Ensure she knows you are interested, but make sure you don't come right out with it, keep some mystery.
Every interaction with an attractive woman should center around getting her to the stage where she thinks you're about to ask her out. Keep them hanging.
Remember not to fawn over her, she's a woman, there are billions of them. Be slightly aloof, but receptive to what she says. Be every so slightly arrogant and don't boast like mad to impress her. Show her how awesome you are by being a stand-out sort of guy (in a good way, don't be the office idiot or anything like that) and pretend you don't notice her attention. Catch her eye often and smile sometimes, other times just look away as though you haven't noticed.
Women are hooked on these sorts of games and probably don't even know it.
Start practising this and it will become second nature. Soon enough, you will have many, many potential dates and you'll never have another dry spell again.
The Key to Success With Women - Preparation is the Key to Success With Women
